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 Be proud to say no to sex to someone you don't love

"Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexual immoral." Hebrews 13:4

God created sex to be special, pure and to be honored in marriage.

He does expect us to refrain from immoral behavior, and to be loyal to each other.

"It is God's Will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality." 1 Thessalonians 4:3

If we are unmarried or a widow, God's Word says:

"Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion." 1 Corinthians 7: 8-9

I am not unique nor do I think that I was a square in high school for staying a virgin. I had the best times in High School. I believe that most people who graduate from high school today are virgins.

I feel that I had just as many great dates in high school as the next guy. I just never loved no one like that in high school.  I am not weird nor am I wired wrong. I believe the reason most married people are dysfunctional in the bedroom is because their hearts and their minds are not totally committed in every way shape and form to their partner.The biggest sexual organ on a person is the human brain, and it's called pure, loyal passionate love. The truth is I'd rather be caressed for just a brief moment of passion by a woman who truly loves me than to spend a night with a stranger who doesn't. I believe that people who believe this is doing it God's way and He will bless you with more intense, more incredible memories of each other throughout both your destiny's. They say that that it was Helen of Troy that had the face that launched a thousand ships.

I say that it is God's Will for every woman to be loved, respected, and honored far more than any "Helen of Troy"  by a loving and loyal Christian man that shares their dreams, hopes, and desires, to be both loyal in the bedroom and in their future.

Isn't that the blessed way God created us all to be?

"A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies." Proverbs 31:10

God believes in you

Reverend Michael Cartwright

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